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Does Everything Good Have a Bad Side?

Let's get real for a moment. If you ever had one of those mind-blowing, soul-touching, body-tingling experiences in the bedroom, the kind of intimacy that makes your soul slowly float right out of your body, then let's be honest—you also know that ordinary just doesn't cut it anymore.
Soul sex is like being in the throes of passion, and suddenly, you're floating. It's as if you're suspended in the cosmos above earth, sharing an otherworldly connection with someone who just gets you—mind, body, and spirit. It feels like no one else exists in the moment other than the two of you — as everything just seems to fall into the background. If you've never been there, trust us, you're missing out. We're talking about the kind of connection that's so profound, it makes your earthly self feel like it's touched the heavens. But, does one night of passion come with unwanted baggage that you didn’t co-sign? Yes — it's going to be one steamy ride.
The Skinny on Soul Ties
Soul ties are like a cosmic thread that links two souls after an intimate encounter. But here's where it gets intriguing - it's not just about any kind of hookup. Soul ties are like the superglue of the universe; they form when you've bared not just your body but your heart and soul to your partner. Now, if you’re new to the soulful side of yourself, you’re probably thinking, "Is this real or just some spiritual mumbo jumbo?" Hold on to your chakras, babes, because we're bringing you into the good and the bad on soul ties and soul sex.

Energy Exchange Warning

A word of caution: sexual intercourse is an energy exchange. When you engage with someone, you're not just sharing physical pleasure; you're sharing energies. If you don't know the person well or sense that they carry negative energy, you might unknowingly invite toxicity into your life. Think of it as a cosmic swap: your vibrant, positive energy in exchange for their less desirable vibes. So, the power belongs to you and it should never be any other way other than you making the informed decision for yourself and your soul. Choose your partners wisely and ensure they match your energy frequency.

Good Ties

Now, let's chat about the duality of soul ties. These connections aren't inherently good or bad; they're simply powerful. Positive soul ties can be forged through loving, respectful, and consensual intimacy. They strengthen connections, creating a sense of belonging and emotional intimacy between partners. First, lets see what the science says: according to Dr. Daniel Amen, a neuropsychiatrist and expert in brain health and emotional well-being mentions that sex can have a profound impact on the human psyche, "Whenever a person is sexually involved with another person, neurochemical changes occur in both brains that encourage limbic, emotional bonding" — aka limbic resonance. This implies that during sexual intimacy, our brains undergo transformations that promote emotional connections, often beyond our conscious intentions. For instance, engaging in sexual intercourse while menstruating, these neurochemical changes are intensified, creating a profound link between your emotional and physical self. This heightened connection can lead to a deeper understanding of your desires, emotions, and even past experiences. It's as if the physical act of passionate sex becomes a gateway to accessing your innermost thoughts and feelings. Moreover, spiritualists and psychologists alike have explored the concept of soul ties through various practices, such as past life regressions and deep introspection. Their findings suggest that the soul ties formed during menstruation are exceptionally potent. These ties can help in releasing pent-up emotions, trauma, and negative energies, providing a path to emotional healing and liberation. For many, the menstruation phase, when combined with soulful intercourse, offers a unique opportunity for emotional release and rejuvenation. It's like a spiritual reset button, allowing you to shed the burdens of the past and embrace a brighter, more harmonious future.

Bad Ties

So conversely, there is a negative side to the coin. Like anything risky, powerful and potent — there is always a disclaimer. Soul ties often result from toxic or manipulative relationships. Negative ties can leave you feeling drained, anxious, or burdened by someone else's negative energy. It's like hitching your spiritual wagon to a falling star. So, even if you're getting down with someone new, who's carrying a lot of negative baggage, well, that's where things can get messier. Negative emotions, traumas, and toxic energies can flow through that cord and into your own energy field. It's like a not-so-fun game of energetic tag—you're "it," and it's not pretty.

The Journey Through Past Lives

Spiritualists often delve into past life regressions or conduct studies that offer glimpses into the world of soul ties. Through these journeys, they've observed clients encountering individuals with whom they've shared intense past-life connections. These connections, whether loving or traumatic, seem to transcend time and space. Spiritualists and energy practitioners often speak about these ties. Dr. Judith Orloff, a psychiatrist and intuitive healer, dives into the concept of energy vampire—people who drain your energy—causing unhealthy soul ties. Her insights into energy protection and cleansing can be super helpful for maintaining soulful integrity.

The Menstrual Mystery

Now, let's get into the nitty-gritty. How are soul ties believed to be formed through sexual intercourse? Well, during moments of intimacy, there's an energetic exchange between partners. It's not just a physical connection; it's a spiritual one too. This exchange can lead to the formation of a soul tie, binding two individuals together on a soul level. And here's an interesting twist: soul ties can be especially potent when intimate moments occur during a woman's menstruation. In some spiritual beliefs, this phase is seen as a time when a woman's energy is exceptionally powerful. Therefore, any connections formed during this period are believed to carry a unique intensity.

CUT. The. Cord

So, lets get to these cords that play a crucial role in soul ties. These cords are like invisible energetic threads that connect you to someone with whom you've exchanged energy during, say, that sizzling rendezvous one steamy February night. They're believed to be situated in chakra locations within your body, attaching you to that person. Now, some of these cords can be amazing, like a beautiful symphony of energy connecting two souls. But, babe, if you suspect you have a soul tie that's not vibing with your highest good, there's hope!

Here's the tea: you can definitely release these cords or have a professional do it for you (I had one removed recently.) All you need to do is reach out to a qualified Reiki specialist or energy healer who can guide you through the process. Think of them as energetic surgeons, skillfully cutting the cords that no longer serve you. Doreen Virtue, a renowned author and spiritual counselor, discusses the significance of cord-cutting ceremonies in her work. She emphasizes the importance of releasing any cords that may be holding you back spiritually and emotionally. They're like energetic surgeons, skillfully cutting the cords that no longer serve you. By removing these unwanted ties, you can free yourself from the emotional baggage, negative energy, or unhealthy attachments that may have formed during past intimate encounters. The removal process requires a form of meditation and visualization and once removed, it feels like a cold compress on the area of your body where the cord situated itself.

These connections are profound, mysterious, and worth understanding. Whether they bring love and light or require a bit of energetic decluttering, soul ties remind us of the interconnectedness of our cosmic experience.

Just remember, Noodies, you have the power to choose the energetic connections you invite into your life and the power to detangle yourself from unwanted soul ties.